Yesterday some of you thanked me for reminding you not to get a dog. I feel a little guilty. I can't deny that it can be a huge pain, Sally has cost us big time in both time and money - but she was our first baby. We got her from a shelter on the Friday before Thanksgiving, 2 months after we were married. She was 9 weeks old. Her entire litter had been abandoned, and she was the last puppy adopted. We weren't the first to adopt her, but the first family returned her because their son was allergic. We brought her home and she did nothing but sit in my lap for days. She wouldn't even respond to a cookie or ball. Hubs worried that she was too placid. Um....no.
The dog is a runner. A jumper. A world-class chewer. I won't bother to inventory the household items she destroyed in the early days before we crated her. (Always and only when we left her alone...she had a massive case of separation anxiety that lasted almost 5 years.) Suffice it to say that the list includes a sofa and a fire extinguisher.
The Princess was born when Sally was 2 years old. We weren't sure what behaviour to expect from our pooch, but any jealousy she may have felt was overruled by her immense joy at having me home every day on maternity leave. She soon became extremely protective of 'her' baby, and would run to me and bark whenever the Princess cried, and then back to her station at the side of the crib.
Do they look guilty to you too?
The love was mutual. The Princess's first word was 'dog'. And then 'Oh! dog'. And then 'Sal'. She finally deigned to learn 'mom' and 'dad' sometime after that. In the mornings, when the Princess woke up, she would look around the room and call "Dog! Dog!" If I said "Sally's in the other room honey," my girl would start to cry. I'd call "Sally!" and the minute we heard the jangle of Sally's tags the Princess would laugh and clap.
Just after we'd moved to our new house, when Sally was 3 and the Princess was 1, we dropped Sally off at the beauty salon for the morning. When we got home I put away our coats and looked around for the Princess. She was sitting in Sally's crate, tears running down her cheeks, crying, "Oh dog....oh dog.....oh dog." I had to laugh at those confused little tears.
Our dog is good with kids, and has the patience of a saint. When the Princess was about 16 months old she dropped her cookie on the floor and Sally ate it. The Princess was furious. I still see this scene in slow motion. She stood up and grabbed both sides of Sally's mouth and pulled them outwards. She put her nose to Sally's and screamed. And screamed. I was sure she was going to be bitten and I raced across the room to them. Sally just waited until the baby let go, shook her head, and left the room. She hasn't taken food from her since. So yes. The dog is a pain in the ass. But she's our pain in the ass. I can't believe she's 6 already.
17 comments:
What a wonderful companion she is for the Princess! I love those stories. sounds like she is a wonderful part of your family.
I often think of getting a dog as I know how wonderful it would be for the kids, but I just can't do it, too much for me on top of everything else. We don't have the time or attention to give a dog that it would deserve.
I always say that we will get one when we move to an acreage.
Oh my gosh. That is just too sweet. Now I'm going to go scream in my 12 year old dog's face to get her to stop stealing food. Excuse me.
Those are such great stories; the cookie one is my favourite!
What a nice lil' peek into the bond between your girl and her schmoopie.
Our Girl was deathly afraid of dogs. Would scream and cry and shake if she saw one across the road. And then we got Gilley McGee. That kid/pet bond is a strong one indeed.
PS - If I scream in my kids' faces, will they stop stealing my food?
I have tears in my eyes, something the old me (read: before doggie) would have done. I would have thought, ew...you let your baby in with the dog..ew. The new thinks it's terribly cute.
The new me can't imagine our lives without Bree. She chews and barks and runs away when she should run towards us BUT we love her! I didn't think I was a dog person but, who knew, I am!
Our kids love her and especially the youngest. She crawls into the crate too and takes food out of her mouth. It's truly something to see.
And yup...those too look like serious trouble to me! lol.
Sal is a beauty!
Aww - I love dog stories. I LOVE dogs. I have a cat I adore but I so NEED a dog. If only I coudl talk my husband into it...
What a great post about your baby and your dog!! I love the cookie story - too cute!! Take care - Kellan
Great pictures too - BTW!!!!!
She seems like a great dog. My mom has an Austrailian Shepard that is kind of like that. A great dog, whom I adore....but the fur alone makes me cringe.
don't feel guilty...dogs are a huge responsibility...and it is hard when you add kids to the mix, hubby AND a dog...I mean, at my house it is like OVERLOAD of kids on my hands. ;)
She is gorgeous. I love how they are best friends.
Those pictures melted my heart. Only the best of dogs don't eat cookies dropped by a child. I know, because I had a dog like that, too. :)
Heidi
we had cats when MQ was younger, and "cat" was her first move. the cats also gave her the motivation she needed to learn to crawl. They were a big part of her baby and toddlerhood
Sally is such a gorgeous dog, and they DO look guilty in that photo.
It sounds like she is such an important part of your family and brings joy to your kids too.
Kids are bugging us for a dog... but I won't budge until I know I'm ready to do the work. So we'll see...
I love that last photo. Sally is a sweetie.
'oh dog, oh dog'
that's too sweet.
Awe, thanks for reminding me why I DO want to get a dog.
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